Wedding planning, there are three things must listen to mom, when we grow up, we also gradually understand a truth: mother is the most understanding of her daughter. But it doesn’t mean mom’s all right. Her daughter will listen to her, especially the wedding. Planning a wedding’s excitement, pressure and drama sometimes distorts the bride’s view of things, and it’s important to listen to mom’s opinions and ideas. When she invests emotionally in your happiness, she may have a clearer idea that can help you. Remember, your mother is for your happiness, even if you don’t intend to do what she says, but the three things you should be patient to listen to her advice. 1, choosing wedding dresses is undeniable, you inherited the parents, not only appearance, or even behavior, choice and decision are similar to them. Your mother wants you to show you the most beautiful wedding, no matter what is popular now, she may realize you will make a wrong decision and regret at a later date, similar to the wedding in the church when the dress too exposed, or choose to dress is not suitable for you are. Even your best friend, in the sense of kindness, probably doesn’t tell you that this dress doesn’t suit you, but your mom doesn’t lie, and even if what she says hurts you, you know, everything she does is to make you happy. 2, when dramatic scenes occur, under the pressure of wedding planning, usually some simple differences will also make you or good friends or brothers and sisters between the outbreak of the conflict. Your mother will be aware of the anxiety situation, she will not let you do some excesses hurt your relationship, the best way is to listen to mother’s words, calm down, if the mother does not intervene in this matter you are likely to not let them angrily when your maid of honor, after the most anxiety or your own. 3, if you do not love your marriage mother, your mother is on your side, but your mother will face new problems in family life in the early decades ago, she is well aware of the long-term effects because of emotional reasons make stupid decisions caused by. You may not like your future mother-in-law before you get married, but she is the bond of your married couple’s happy life. Learn to communicate with your mother, discuss solutions, don’t complain to your husband, it will make the conflict between husband and wife more and more, if you can not learn how to get along with his family, with children, your life will be worse.